My Healthy Hair Regimen

I know this was promised so many times but here it is.

Daily
Spritz my hair  with water mixed with my oil mix and seal with coconut oil. I do this when styling my hair in the morning and when putting my hair up at night. I use aloe vera gel on my edges for a little hold and moisture.

Weekly
Deep condition (coconut honey mask or hot oil treatment).
Cowash with Trader Joe’s Tea Tree Tingle conditioner.
When styling I use a shea and mango butter based leave in that I make myself.

Monthly
To cleanse my scalp I make a clay mask for my hair. After I wash the mask from my hair I rinse with apple cider vinegar and water (3 parts water and 1 part apple cider vinegar) and then I condition with Trader Joe’s Tea Tree Tingle. If my scalp is flaky, itchy, or there’s more build up than usual I use a baking soda rinse instead of the mud wash (1 part baking soda and 2 parts water) and afterwards I still rinse with apple cider vinegar and condition.

**If I run out of Trader Joe’s conditioner and I need to cowash my hair. I’ll substitute by using suave. I mix Suave’s Sleek and Shine with olive oil and castor oil. I also add peppermint oil, tea tree oil, and eucalyptus oil to it as well and that holds me over until I can make it to Trader Joe’s.

How do you care for your hair? Let me know in the comment section.

LifewithDemetra Product Line?

Hair v Flat Iron

Remember this post Why Are All Natural Products so expensive? Click the link to refresh your memory.

Are you done reading? Do you like the idea? For those of you that didn’t click the link let me clue you in. I’m starting my own line of affordable natural products. When I say affordable I mean $20 will get you multiple products not just the conditioner and some some change. I’m in the development stages which means I can’t offer any trials yet…If you’re a blogger email me so you can help me get the products out there by trying it and telling others how you like or love it.

When I say natural products I mean it. No chemicals to strip your hair, no silicones to coat your hair and block moisture. I want you have healthy hair. Your hair can grow, your hair can be healthy you just have to treat it right.

Heat can’t tame the mane.

I need your help. Since this line is for you. I need your input. Please answer the questions below in the comment section it will benefit you trust me.

 

 

 

1. Do you know your hair’s porosity? (High, regular, low) Hair porosity test.

2. Do you have any allergies to any oils, butters, or anything that’s used in hair products?

3. What is your biggest hair problem? (Moisture retention, length retention, styling etc…)

New Wash Routine

I have a new process for cowashing that makes my wash process so easy, my hair is so moisturized and soft, and best of all I am now finger detangling and using the comb less. I have a lot of hair. A LOT!!!!!

I'll miss my afro during the winter.

I’ll miss my afro during the winter.

After I added some color

After I added some color

I love Aloe Vera and Afros!

I love Aloe Vera and Afros!

See all the hair!

On to the method. Naptural 85 is my hair crush b/c I think her hair is similar to mine and she was the first vlogger I subscribed to. Click here to learn about this new process. Try it and let me know if it helped.

Oily October Day 17

It’s Day 17 of Oily October! How’s it been so far? I’m always on the go because I’m a full time student and I also work. When I get home at night I’m exhausted and as much as I want to just crawl in the bed I know I’ll have a harder time in the morning if I do. My nightly routine is so simple that I can do it in my sleep (I think I have a couple times).

Demetra’s Nightly Hair Routine:
 – Spray hair with water and seal with oil of your choice (or aloe vera juice).
 – Twist hair into a bun (if your hair is shorter do multiple buns this keeps hair stretched).
 – Secure your bun with a hair tie and put on your satin scarf or bonnet (if you’re me you wear both).

Routine so easy a sleepy deprived person can do it and it’s fast. What oils are you using and how?

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This is a heatless blowout achieved by stretching hair overnight in a bun.

Oily October Starts Now

First day of school hair

All month long Oily October Challenge will be going on. I’ve teamed with Lauren of UntouchMyHair to bring this to you. Enter this week by commenting on this post or tagging your pics (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and Tumblr) #LWD and #UTMH.

To enter you have to tag your starting pictures (your current length) this is not a contest to see who grows the most hair. We want all that enter to be active.

Oily October Challenge

I need some motivation. It’s Autumn the air is cool and the meals are warm. I have not been the best when it comes to drinking water, eating right, and even keeping up with my hair. The semester has so busy I forget to eat, I barely sleep, and my poor hair is suffering.

So I decided to come up with a way to make sure I keep my beautiful hair moisturized as the weather tries to dry it out.

It’ll be pretty easy. For the month of October you must follow the rules below.

1. Pick your two favorite oils. You must use the oils at least three times a week (Deep conditioner, hot oil treatment, sealing in moisture) in any way. Here’s a video on the oil mix that I use Hair and Body Oil Mix. I also add essential oils and coconut oil to mine.

Here’s my hair journey up to my BC last year. Hair Journey

The shrinkage is real my hair is past my shoulders.

The shrinkage is real my hair is past my shoulders. (2012)

First twistout after my BC (2011)

First twistout after my BC (2011)

2. You must drink at LEAST 1 liter of water daily (nonnegotiable and no cheating)

3. At least one protective style a week.

To show your progress please use #LWD and #UTMH on Twitter, Tumblr, and Instagram.

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Big Chop Story with UntouchMyHair

My first year as a natural came and went on September 8th. Here are my posts right after I took the plunge and just a year later I have a beautiful head of hair, it was scary at first but it was so rewarding. Look out for a post about my regimen, I was hoping to vlog my regimen but as of right now I’ll be blogging.
I celebrated my BC but my hair is in twists so I can’t show how much my hair has grown over the year. I asked Lauren of UntouchMyHair to tell me about her experience.

How did you feel about your hair and yourself before your big chop? After?
I was really attached to it. I’d always been natural before, and tried lots of different styles and a few colors. Then I relaxed it and I liked it, but I missed my real hair. Even though I could still do afros even with a relaxer, it just didn’t feel right. It wasn’t as fun. Out of all the styles I’ve tried, bald was never one of them. I didn’t want to transition; I like to do things all the way instantly. I went into my bathroom with scissors and my clippers and cut it off myself. Once i started I knew I couldn’t change my mind. After I finished, I felt excited, amazed, and nervous. I thought everyone was gonna say that i looked bad or ugly, but it was the complete opposite. My confidence boosted a lot from that experience. I ended up maintaining it short for over a year, and I’d have no problem doing it again. It was a really great experience and a good lesson.
How did you care for your hair hair when you were relaxed? As a natural?
My hair care wasn’t really different actually. I still used olive oil, still deep conditioned, etc. but I wasn’t doing protein treatments, because I believed the ‘protein sensitive’ myth. I was having to ‘texlax’ every few weeks because my hair was growing fast, and my hair dries fast so I was having to be almost obsessed with my hair to make sure it stayed moisturized and retained growth. Especially since I kept it straight. Now that I’m natural, I don’t have to worry as much because I know I can put a creamy moisturizer in and not worry about my hair curling up. I use more oils, more thicker creams, and have fun making my own products. My hair care days are still every week, but it’s not as much work because I know i can braid my hair in the end and be okay. 
 
How long has it been since you big chop? Were the people closest to you supportive of your decision? What about now?
I big chopped Dec 26, 2011, so in a few months it’ll be 3 years since I big chopped. I think they were supportive. Nobody discouraged me from doing it, but nobody was standing outside the door waiting to see either. After it was done, they were amazed and liked it a lot. They thought it suited me well. As time goes by, they’ve (my mom and sisters) have had a growing interest in hair care. We’ve all had our time with relaxers, but for most of our lives, we’ve been natural. From me sharing my recipes and experiments, they’ve all become more curious of what natural ingredients and products will work for their hair. So besides our friends, we all have an immediate support system.
If you are thinking about, just went, or are about to go natural, there is always a support system near you. It may not be family, unfortunately, but you don’t have to feel ashamed, or frustrated about anything. People are always willing to help you, and share their mistakes and discoveries.

The CurlyFro

So last week I did a mud wash on my hair. I needed my hair to be extra moisturized and soft because I was going to attempt this CurlyFro tutorial by Naptural85. After my mud wash I didn’t need to add any products and I followed all the steps in the video. I let my hair dry for almost two days. It was dry after one day but I wanted to be sure.

So here’s how it turned out…

All dressed up.

All dressed up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

After two days I wanted more length so I parted my hair down the middle, sprayed each half of my hair with water and put them in a bun. One bun on each side. Here’s how it came out…

First day of school hair

First day of school hair

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…As I was writing this post my hair was drying. I used baking soda on it for the first time to remove build up. It worked so well so I will be adding it to my regimen. I’ll be posting my regimen soon to show how I went from barely neck length to armpit length.

Rhassoul Clay Mud Wash

I haven’t treated my hair to a mud wash in quite some time. I recently ordered some organic Rhassoul clay from Buttern-N-Bars . This is where I get my organic butters from as well. Anyways if you haven’t tried a mud wash you’re missing out. You can apply a mud wash on dry, untangled hair and it will work miracles.  My hair is very thick and it can take a while to untangle. It moisturizes, untangles, and it leaves your hair so soft and you can do anything after that.

See how dry my hair is?

See how dry my hair is?

Rhassoul clay comes from Morocco. It has been used for centuries to take care of the body and hair. This is my first time using Rhassoul clay all my other mud washes have been with Bentonite clay which can be found in a couple places in North America. Bentonite clay left my hair so soft but I’ve found that most people that have tried both Bentonite and Rhassoul clay favor Rhassoul clay.

Here’s what you need:

Supplies

Supplies

1/2 cup of Rhassoul clay (add more of less depending on your length)

1/2 cup of water or aloe vera juce (I had to use water I ran out of aloe vera juice. It’s better)

2 tbs Vatika coconut oil (or any oil of your choice)

4 tbs Oil Mix (Olive, Sweet Almond oil, Castor oil, Jojoba oil, Avocado, and Vatika oil)*

*If you don’t have all of these oils use the ones you have

Mix the clay and the oils together first and then add water to the clay until it’s creamy.

 

Your mud wash should look like this

Your mud wash should look like this

Results. Look at that definition.

Results. Look at that definition.

 

Dry Hair Problems?

English: Coconut oil in solid state

English: Coconut oil in solid state (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

We all have problems with our hair whether it’s relaxed or natural. The most common problem I’ve been dealing with and people have asked me about it dryness. There’s not one solution that will work for every head of hair. It’s all about trial and error, what works for someone else might not work for you. I will never be able to go to bed or leave the house without spraying with water and sealing daily but some lucky people out there can go days without adding moisture. If you haven’t found a way to keep your hair moisturized maybe these tips will help.

1. Drink your water.  You should be drinking half your body weight everyday. If you don’t like the taste of water you can add fresh fruit and herbs to add a little flavor and some vitamins.

Recovery, C-Power, Stressless, Digestive, and Detox vitamin waters

*You can add whatever fruit and/or herbs that you like. I like lemon and lime.
2. You should deep condition once a week or twice a month to add moisture and to strengthen your hair. If your hair is protein sensitive coconut oil is a great alternative to a protein treatment it’ll strengthen and moisturize without making your hair hard. Switch it up a little.
Honey and Coconut oil DC
Mud wash ingredients list *

Mud wash (YouTube tutorial)
Oil Mix for hot oil treaments**
DIY Raw and Organic DC (YouTube)
Egg and Mayo DC (YouTube tutorial)

Greek yogurt DC (Youtube tutorial)

*I use warm aloe vera juice instead of apple cider vinegar now.

**skip to end of post for the oils I use in my mix.  I use Naptural 85’s hair and body mix as a reference.

3. Moisturize and Seal vs LOC method. When it comes to moisture retention there are two different methods I’ve tried and that I hear about a lot. Moisturize and Seal is just moisturizing your hair with water or a leave in conditioner and sealing the moisture in with an oil. The LOC method is helpful if your hair is really dry and you have trouble keeping it moisturized. L is for liquid and it’s usually water, O is for oil, and C is crème as in a leave in. So you spray your hair with water, seal with an oil of your choice and add a leave in on top for added moisture.

Not all oils are created equal. Some oils can penetrate your hair shaft and moisturize your hair and they are coconut oil, olive oil, and avocado oil.

Keep in mind these are just suggestions if you have a routine that works to it stick with it. If you’re having problems with dry hair I hope this helps. If it does help let me know and if it doesn’t help let me know. Everyone’s hair is different and what works for me might not work for you.